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Check Out This Book Review: Growing Girls

January 20, 2008 · 3 Comments

I haven’t read the book Growing Girls, by Jeanne Marie Laskas, and I’ll be perfectly honest and say that I’m not sure how far up it is on my list.

But not only did Kev Minh over at Borrowed Notes read it, he wrote a fascinating 3-part review of it. (One of his poems was also published in the book, interestingly enough.)

Check out his review Can One Poem Subvert a Whole Novel?: (I’ve excerpted a few paragraphs below.)

Laskas functions like a mother, but her inner dialogue betrays a slight repulsion toward her charges. There’s something wrong with the chickens, there’s something wrong with the donkey, there’s something wrong with Anna because she went through a tutu phase and there’s something wrong with Sasha because somehow the orphanage delayed her speech development. It seems as though that if her immediate surroundings are not up to her specifications, if things aren’t done by the book, then she faults the actors in her life for not following the script she wrote in her head long before.

But, I can’t abide by the attitude Laskas takes toward Anna and Sasha’s mothers. It’s as if she is sending a postcard to her daughters’ Chinese mothers apologizing for not writing because she is busy being the kind of mother they chose not to be to their own children. It’s as if she is telling them that she has taken on the challenge of cleaning up their mess and that it’s okay for them to slip away now, barely detectable, like dust in the wind.

So whether you’ve read the book or not, check out Kev’s review, and be sure to read all three parts!

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3 responses so far ↓

  • imtina // January 23, 2008 at 9:54 am | Reply

    I am SO glad you wrote this. I read this book after Judy at Just Enjoy Him wrote a post on this book. I had the same reaction about her attitude. I kept feeling my stomach lurch when she would talk about her daughters mothers. “Ghost Woman” and “Those People” over in China. She definitely objectifies people (and animals it seems) in order to deal with it all.

    Tina

  • Sang-Shil // January 23, 2008 at 10:08 am | Reply

    Hi Tina – thanks for commenting, and for reminding me that Judy wrote about this book also.

    I’ll pass this on to Kev, who actually wrote the review, but feel free to comment on the original post at his site as well. (I’m just the traffic director in this case!)

  • imtina // January 23, 2008 at 11:59 am | Reply

    Hey,

    I’ll check it out!

    Can you email me about getting my widget to work so I can have a Judy Star in my sidebar? I’m not a very savvy blogger…I know…

    tinam at cruzio . com

    Thanks!

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